*sigh*

I don't think this is an *Alpha Female* thing, because I'm not the only woman I know who has expressed this.....but it is SO frustrating to me to be circled by men who can't work up the nerve to ask me out. I don't do hints. In fact, a man who hints at me about wanting to go out, actually repulses me. If you want to take me out on a date, fucking ask me. It really is that simple. I don't want to do the back-and-forth hint game. If I want to get to know you better, I'll accept your invitation. If I don't, I'll be gentle but honest. Guys, what's the worst that could happen? I might say no, and if that's the worst thing that happens, then was that so bad? The circling me while probing approach makes me see you as spineless and timid. Therefore you are seafood and will be devoured for lunch. And NOT in the good way.