I have been aware for some time, that I put people I love on a pedestal. More often than not, it's a pedestal they don't deserve to be on. Yet there I place them, shiny and lovely, long before they've proven they are worthy. I can't help it. I choose to see the best in people, and believe the things they tell me. Since my ex-husband, The Universe has been trying to show me the error in this. And yet, I did it again with that last boyfriend. After we broke up, I learned some truths that prove once again, I put someone up on a pedestal who didn't deserve to be there.
Last week I saw a photo that drove home with piercing finality that not only did he not deserve the pedestal, but that I need to never, EVER ignore my intuition again. I fell for the "she's just a friend" thing. AGAIN. Well, I finally got it Universe. Lesson learned! If you know he lied, was shady, or had the capacity to be sneaky.....then you know it can also happen to you.
My biggest challenge will be learning where to draw the lines of trust. And this new guy of mine.....I'm trying not to make him pay for the deviousness of the last.
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